Wedding veils are such an iconic part of a bridal look! They are maybe the most recognizable part of the modern bridal silhouette. Here’s a little rundown about choosing a veil (or not) for your Catholic wedding!

Let’s start with why we wear them! The wearing of veils at weddings dates so far back that tracing the evolution of the veil is difficult. Most historical sources agree that they were commonly worn in Ancient Rome to prevent disguise the bride from evil spirits (also the reason they had bridesmaids)! Since then, veils have fallen in and out of fashion, though they’ve been largely in style since Queen Victoria’s wedding, which also brought about the white dress (talk about a trend setter)! ⁣ ⁣

Do I have to wear one? No! Though a variety of symbolic meanings have been attached, there are no rules about wearing a veil in a Catholic wedding ceremony. It’s all cultural! ⁣ ⁣

If I do wear one, how do I chose? That depends on your wedding theme and gown. Typically, a longer veil indicates a more traditional and elegant wedding. A shorter veil is usually more fun and playful. A mantilla veil, which is usually a full oval/circle and ringed by thick lace all around, is a sweet choice for a bride who typically already veils at Mass on a regular basis because it’s a wonderful transition from a white veil to a brown or black one. Latin Mass ladies, you know what I’m talking about! ⁣

Not sure a veil is for you? Try a non-traditional veil! A vintage style birdcage is great for a non traditional bride. Etsy carries a beautiful range of embroidered or bead/pearl studded veils if you’re looking for something more unique. If you’re still not convinced, go without! One less thing to worry about. ⁣

Bella’s pearl studded veil was such a gorgeous compliment to her garden style reception venue! See more about that wedding here!

Still can’t decide? Here are some pros and cons!

Veil pros:

Wedding veils are classic, and will make any gown feel even more bridal.

A veil also gives you the option of wearing a blusher, which is the thin layer of veil that covers a bride’s face. A blusher can make a bridal entrance more dramatic!

They give your photographer a little more to work with.

Veil cons:

They can be heavy and pull on your head

They can hide your hairstyle or details on the back of your dress. T

They’re one more thing to add to the budget!

All in all, a wedding veil is not a necessity for a Catholic wedding, but it can be a lovely complement on this incredible, sacramental day!